Ok, ok… enough of the the lame joke. Obviously, I am widowed and looking for the right man. I’m not exactly sure who or where that right man is, but hopefully he stumbles across this profile and messages me. That sure would be it easy.Some things I know about him… I’m not going to meet him in a bar or while working. He has his life together and is pretty darn similar to me. Though, not anatomically similar. Duh, I’m looking for a man, not a woman. I want him to become my best friend and my partner.You probably want to know more about me now, so you can figure out how similar we are. Here goes… i am currently starting a small biz and being a good mom for my kid who school away from here,I’m not a big drinker. I honestly do not think I’ve ever been like, ‘hey, lets get drunk tonight!’. It’s happen, but usually very unplanned and very much regretted the next day. I would much rather spend the evening relaxing (maybe even with a drink or two, but rarely three) and get up bright eyed and bushy tailed the next day. This doesn’t mean that I don’t like to go out, but I prefer to go to a bar-like place with a purpose, such as seeing some bands or having a nice glass of wine.one more thing u should know....after i lost my husband, i have a vocal core problem and makes it hard to be heard, the voice won't come out, but not that i am deaf and dumb...just can't speak out loud enough to be heard on the phone, the doc say i am gonna be alright after some major surg which i am looking into the possibilities, so if u still like my profile and wanna meet, why not hit the message button lol.